About us

Raise Incredible Kidsis dedicated to helping parents raise kids who stay in contact, throughout childhood, with the incredible person they were at the moment of birth. Applying ancient Principles and Conscious Parenting, we help parents redefine the “job” of parenting, allowing parents and kids to become responsible partners, together.  By supporting Incredible Parents, who raise Incredible Kids, we are committed to the enlightenment of our world through building Conscious Families for a loving Tomorrow.This information is available through:

  • Classes and Seminars and Webinars
  • Keynote Speeches
  • Information Products, including books, CDs, recordings, interactive online learning, videos, podcasts
  • Live and Online Coaching
  • Continuing Education credit for California Social Workers and Marriage and Family Therapists (Approved by the California BBSE).
  • Membership Services

Ilene L. Dillon, M.S.W.
The Emotional Pro 

Founder of RaiseIncredibleKids.com

With 40 years of experience helping families and parents of many cultures and descriptions, Ilene specializes in helping parents develop Incredible Kids who discover who they really are (inside), and bring that incredibleness to the world, in ways that are both effective and last lifelong. 

Ilene’s approach makes “problems” with communication, manipulation, anger and resentment, self esteem, or parental emotional and behavioral responses to action, interesting “puzzles” that can be solved. She promotes partnership between  parent and child, with her down-to-earth approach, use of ancient universal Principles and loving tools that support parents, children and families to help our interplanetary “visitors” get the best possible support for their life on earth. When parents Raise Incredible Kids, they become the parents they wish they had!

A pioneer in the Emotional Literacy movement, Ilene’s parent manuals, which teach parents how to help their children develop emotional literacy, were published  starting in 1994. These had the title Exploring Anger With Your Child (and included manuals on the emotions of anger, grief, guilt, fear, loneliness, jealousy, and hurt). Three others were written but not published, on intimacy, shame and remorse, and  love. These have now been revised, with the title The ABCs of Anger:  Building Emotional Foundations for Life. Ilene is also author of CDs and books, including Happiness is a Decision of the Heart, Bouncing Back from Energy Sapping, Stop Anger Now, 4 Building Blocks of Self-Esteem, Co-Dependence: The Bottom Line, and Awaken to Your Emotions. Ilene’s ideas have been featured internationally, on King World’s The Rolonda Show, and in The San Francisco Chronicle, Care Notes, Personal Excellence, and Woman’s Day.



Ilene L. Dillon, M.S.W., aka "The Emotional Pro," has been transforming the world through the power and mastery of human emotions for four decades. A long-time California Marriage and Family Therapist, Ilene used her 20 years as a single parent to develop a powerful way to Parent Consciously. Ilene is a pioneer of the Emotional Literacy field, having published her first books in 1994. Now married to neurosurgeon Dr. Robert Fink, Ilene shares 6 adult "children" and 5 grandchildren in her blended family. Since 2004 she has hosted Full Power Living on the Internet.

Copyright © 2012-Present, All Rights Reserved.